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Lesson 1 Setting Your Dating Intentions
Start intentional dating with a clear plan—define courtship vs. dating, set values, and use consent-forward scripts for genuine connection.
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The Modern Art of Courtship
The No-Game, No-Confusion Plan for Genuine Connection
A Practical, Step-by-Step Guide to Modern Dating
A 12-lesson course with clear plans for each stage—from intentions and first contact to intimacy, the Define-the-Relationship (DTR) conversation, and lasting partnership.
Course Overview
Skip "games" and use clear, respectful plans that prioritize comfort, fit, and momentum at every step.
Each lesson includes a key principle, a step-by-step plan, practical examples, and a short action checklist you can use the same day.
Who It's For
Readers who want a straightforward plan for modern dating—practical steps that remove guesswork and reduce pressure.
Built for common pain points: confusion about norms, uncertainty after dates, and how to move forward with clarity.
What You'll Learn
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Foundations: intentions, authentic confidence, and consent-and-boundary basics.
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First steps: approach cleanly, have engaging first-date conversations, and plan low-pressure first dates.
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Momentum: follow up within 24 hours, deepen emotional intimacy, and navigate physical affection clearly.
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Commitment: practice thoughtful follow-through, have the DTR talk, and sustain a lasting partnership.
Ethics & Safety
Expect public, easy-to-exit venues, alcohol-optional plans, and ongoing, enthusiastic consent as standard practice.
Respect for boundaries and clear options at every step keep comfort, agency, and trust front and center.
Course Curriculum
12 comprehensive lessons designed to guide you through every stage of modern dating.
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Lesson 2 Building Authentic Confidence
Build authentic self-confidence with values, emotional intelligence, and self-compassion, plus ready-to-use scripts for genuine connection.
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Lesson 3 Consent and Boundaries
A practical, step-by-step guide to consent and boundaries in modern dating, with clear language, examples, and respectful scripts that build trust.
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Lesson 4 Genuine, Two-Way Conversation
Practical first date conversation tips that move beyond small talk with open-ended questions, active listening, and safe self-disclosure to build real connection.
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Lesson 5 Making the Approach Respectfully
A clear, respectful plan to show interest directly—online or in person—using low-pressure asks, clean scripts, and immediate respect for any answer.
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Lesson 6 Planning a Thoughtful First Date
A step-by-step plan for low-pressure, conversation-first first dates—set clear logistics, handle the bill respectfully, and end with clarity.
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Lesson 7 The Post-Date Follow-Up
A clear plan for texting after a first date—follow up in 24 hours, keep it personal, and set a second date with two low-pressure options.
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Lesson 8 Building Emotional Intimacy
Build emotional intimacy after early dates with low-pressure vulnerability, active listening, shared experiences, and values-based questions.
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Lesson 9 Navigating Physical Intimacy and Affection
Get a no-confusion plan for navigating physical intimacy with enthusiastic consent, clear scripts, and respectful check-ins that build trust and comfort.
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Lesson 10 Consistent, Thoughtful Follow-Through
Practice modern chivalry with consistent follow-through—reliable plans, considerate options, small thoughtful details, and clear appreciation.
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Lesson 11 The Define-the-Relationship (DTR) Conversation
A clear, step-by-step plan for the DTR conversation—timing cues, plain-language scripts, and respectful options for any answer.
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Lesson 12 Sustaining a Lasting Partnership
A practical plan for lasting partnership — daily rituals of connection, conflict tools, shared meaning, and ongoing consent.
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Your Learning Path
Start at Lesson 1 to set intentions, then move through approach, conversation, first-date planning, and follow-up for smooth momentum.
Continue with emotional intimacy, physical affection, consistency, the DTR talk, and long-term partnership skills.
Ready to Begin?
Lesson 1 sets the foundation so every next step is easier and clearer.
Start Lesson 1